When your student is unable to answer a question, instead of telling them the answer, show them how to figure it out.When dealing with mathematics, this often involves a lot of counting.
To make it more meaningful and interesting to your student, get the numbers from them. Have them say a number, or use some significant number like their age.. It makes it more meaningful to them, and as a result, they will remember it easier.
Now on to the basic exercise..
I started with a quick review of number houses.. starting with writing down the numbers up to 10.. as in
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10Then pointing out that when you get to 10, the numbers can't fit in the house any more, so they move next door. In the process they change from ten ones, to one ten.
Next I write a large number down, and ask them, while pointing to each number "how many ones", "how many tens", "how many hundreds"... You could go as high as thousands, but that might stretch the vocabulary of the four and five year olds. To review, ask them the same questions without pointing.
Next I got a couple of numbers from them and wrote them down on the board in the vertical form.. as in..
9
+ 8
I then talked about adding steps, as an introduction to the number line.. Which is a great way to show the answers as well as negatives, being opposite..
I used little arcs to represent each step along the number line starting from zero.. so..
After showing this exercise, I return back to the addition diagram and fill in the 17.. like so..9
+ 8
17
This gives them a concrete observation to associate with the abstract representation of how we write the addition problem down to solve it.
Generally, the more concrete observables a student has to associate with a principle, the easier it will be for them to understand and recall it. If a student is having difficulty with a principle, see how many ways you can help them to experience it. For counting, addition and subtraction, use beans, fingers, toes, blocks, etc.. I use steps for the number line specifically for the utility it has when considering negatives or subtraction which I will illustrate in a moment.
Now that I have illustrated addition, I add another 8 below the 17, and add in the subtraction sign, and then I update the step diagram, starting at the right end, and looping upside down and backwards, count 8 steps back..

9
+ 8
17
- 8
then I count the remaining 9 steps again from the left, and I can update the diagram again like so.
9
+ 8
17
- 8
9
At this point, you can point out that the top and bottom numbers are the same. This is important, as this will allow them to check their own work later, once they get the hang of things.









